How Blake Lively Used D.A.R.V.O Against Justin Baldoni and Outraged The Public with Her Cruel Interviews
Narcissists may use a defense mechanism called DARVO (Deny, Attack, Reverse Victim and Offender) when they are confronted with blame or accountability for their actions. This behavior often occurs because narcissists tend to have fragile self-esteem despite their outward confidence and may struggle with accepting any form of criticism or responsibility.
DARVO stands for Deny, Attack, Reverse Victim and Offender. . It's a pattern of actions used by people who are accused of wrongdoing to deflect blame and avoid responsiblility.
Attack:Allegations of Sexual Harassment: In December 2024, Blake Lively filed a lawsuit against Justin Baldoni, accusing him of sexual harassment during the production of It Ends With Us. She claimed that Baldoni's behavior caused her "grief, fear, trauma, and extreme anxiety." Instead of taking responsibility, the narcissist may turn the blame back onto the accuser, attacking their character or integrity.
LIVELY PUT THE A IN DARVO BY FILLING A BASELESS PETTY LAWSUIT WITH SERIOUS ALLEGATIONS AND 0 EVIDENCE, RATHER THE EXACT OPPOSITE: TONS OF EVIDENCE AGAINST HER.
HOW WHERE YOU HARASSED WHEN YOUR WHOLE HUSBAND IS ON SET?
Reverse Victim and Offender: The narcissist flips the narrative by portraying themselves as the victim, even though they were the perpetrator of the harmful behavior. They may use sympathy or guilt to manipulate others into feeling sorry for them. BLAKE PUTS THE R IN DARVO (Reverse Victim) the fact that she used that acronym is further proof of Reversing Blaming after she literally told Baldoni she will unleash her “Dragons” if he doens’t comply with taking accountability for her cancelation and being the scapegoat.
Blake girl, nobody likes you anymore because your interviews shined a light to the fact that you are a horrible person, and Justin had nothing to do with it.
When someone congratulates you with a comment like "cute bump" and then follows it up with an insulting remark like "nice bump too," this behavior could be described as body-shaming or insensitive, particularly if the intention is to mock or belittle the interviewers physical appearance.
In this case, Blake can be called a body-shamer or someone who is disrespectful and hurtful. These kinds of comments can make the person being targeted feel self-conscious, disrespected, or hurt, especially if the remark isn't framed with kindness or positivity.
BLAKE ACCUSED JUSTIN OF FAT SHAMING BUT HOW IS THIS FAT SHAMING? BLAKE PUTS THE R, AGAIN, IN DARVO BECAUSE THE ONLY ONE FAT SHAMING, IS HERSELF
You can look up her response, and her response was 3x longer giving all the reasons why she wants to lose weight, fat shaming, herself.
Deny: The narcissist denies the accusations or responsibility, often lying or downplaying their actions.
BLAKE LIVELY PUTS THE “D” IN DARVO AGAIN BY DENYING HER AWFUL BEHAVIOR THAT WAS THE ACTUAL REASON THAT LED TO HER CANCELATION DUE TO HER MULTIPLE DISTURBING INTERVIEWS - AGAIN - NOT JUSTIN BALDONI (THE CHOSEN SCAPEGOAT) DURING HER INTERVIEWS BLAKE IS RUDE, A MEAN GIRL, AND REALLY SHOWS SHE EXHIBITS INSENSTIVE CRUEL TRAITS OF A TOP TIER NARCISSIST BY BOLDLY MAKING FUN OF DOMESTIC VIOLENCE VICTIMS RESPONDING WITH DEROGATARY AND CRUEL JOKES LIKE “ IF YOURE A DV VICTIM WOULD YOU LIKE TO LOCATION SHARE ME” HA-HA. BITCH.
When someone makes fun of domestic violence (DV) survivors, they can be called a victim-blamer or someone who is disrespectful, insensitive, or abusive. This behavior is harmful and dismissive of the trauma that survivors have experienced. Making light of someone's suffering, especially in such a serious and often traumatic situation, can cause further harm to the survivor and perpetuate an unhealthy culture of silence and shame around abuse.
People who mock or belittle survivors of domestic violence may also be accused of re-victimizing them, as it undermines their experiences and can invalidate the pain and challenges they have gone through.
It's important to foster empathy, understanding, and support for survivors, as they often face complex emotional and physical challenges in healing from their experiences. Educating others about the importance of respecting and validating survivors' experiences can help create a more supportive and compassionate environment.
BLAKE REFUSES THE LOVE COACH/INTIMACY COORDINATOR, THEN SUES FOR NOT HAVING ONE. (EVIDENCE IN TEXT) BITCH YOU ARE A LIAR. SHE AGAIN PUTS THE O IN DARVO (SHE IS THE OFFENDER)
P.S BLAKE PLEASE GO TO A GOOD THERAPIST & A GOOD CHURCH NEAR YOU.
A MESSAGE FOR Justin Baldoni AND OTHER VICTIMS OF DV OR NARCISSISTS
I’m sorry babe you had to meet these real life ugly monsters. It’s life.
Don’t get offended cause they don’t matter.
It’s not your problem they get offended by everything. Please don’t take what they do or say personally, they’re heavily demonized and need a mega exorcism/deliverance.
Heres a good deliverance prayer for them:
“In the name of the lord Jesus Christ if there's anything in my/their life that is not from the lord Jesus Christ be gone in the name of the lord Jesus Christ”
Babe, don’t get distracted when petty people cause Hell. Let them go cry themselves a river, but they won’t steal your peace!
They can only run their mouth and that free P.R — So, they work for you for free!!!
Never forget, the power and peace of the lord is with you.